The year 2000, started with a sad note. Herb's
sister Myrtle who had been suffering from cancer for several years, was taken to the hospital in Humboldt, Saskatchewan on
February 3, in a serious condition. She was low in sodium and full of cancer. She passed away on February 23,
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It was sad to hear that she had passed away. She
was loved by so many people, for who and what she was. She was the life of any gathering, and was famous for her donuts.
Myrtle visited us in B.C. a few years ago, and she made some donuts. Well, you should have seen her go at it.
There were pots, pans and flour all over the place. When she was finished there were enough donuts to last three
months. Of course, Rose placed most of the donuts in the freezer. |
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That spring I planted my garden on May 26th. We
had our first ever garage sale in the first week of June, and made a few hundred bucks. On June 19th, Herb started to
repaint the huge sundeck at the back of the house. First he had to sand the whole thing, then came the coat of underpaint,
and finally the top coat. Three weeks later, he finished it. |
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Daphne gave her parents, her cat Maxi in August.
This is the same cat that eventually saved Brian's life in December of 2001 from Leukemia. |
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Daphne is a very versatile person. She could
dress up like a doll, and yet was never afraid to get her hands dirty. She could fix cars, she worked in the bank, and
she worked in offices with computers. Several times this year she went fishing, hunted bear, moose and deer in northern
B.C. She also travelled to Florida and the Caribbean Islands, and came back with the brownest tan I ever saw.
As if that wasn't enough last year, she learned how to reroof houses with cedar shakes. At present she has her own roofing
company. |
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Herb and Rose's daughter Cheryl got married to Laurence
Brand on November 27, 1999 and gave birth to a son (Ashton) on October 16, 2000. Ashton turned out to be a happy child,
due mainly to his parents. |
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Around September, Rose found that she was having
poor circulation in her legs, and she couldn't walk a block without pain. On October 3rd she started to take "Strauss
Heartdrops", which are excellent for this condition. In just a matter of 3 days the pain went away and she could walk
6 or more blocks without any pain. Her doctor told her, that whatever she was doing, to keep it up. |
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It was good that she started on the Strauss
Heartdrops when she did, because it prevented her from getting a serious stroke on December 5th. As it was,
she only had a mild stroke and recovered from it completely. If any of you have poor blood circulation or are getting
heart problems -- for heaven's sake, try the Strauss Heartdrops. It probably saved Rose's life, and she swears by it. |
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On December 12th, Herb had a small mole removed
from below the left side of his chin, and it turned out to be cancerous. It was one of those slow growing types of cancer.
They operated a 2nd time to go in deeper, to make sure that they got it all. After a year's checkup there were
no more signs of the cancer. |
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On December 26th, Kevin and Mariann returned from
Hawaii, and on the 27th, Daphne returned from the Caribbean. |
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The year 2001 started out with a bang on February
28th, as there was a mild earthquake where Herb and Rose live -- nothing really to talk about, but it did rattle some dishes. |
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Kenny (Myrtle's oldest son) and Elaine from Humboldt,
Saskatchewan, came to Vancouver to visit their daughter Lynne, and spend some time with Herb and Rose, in the first week of
March. Kenny's brother Darrell, moved to Vancouver from Calgary on April 3rd. |
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Rose spent a lot of time this month going to her
dentist. This was the same dentist that Cheryl worked for, as a receptionist. |
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On May 22nd, Herb planted his garden, he then went
fishing on June 4 to 6 at Chilliwack Lake, and promptly got rained out, and then a week later his computer's hard drive crashed.
This was two weeks that he could have done without. |
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June wasn't a very good month. On June 17th,
Rodney had that serious bicycle accident. Rodney suffered a bad concussion, a broken collar bone and several broken ribs.
He also had a fractured spine in the area which connects to the head. He was off work for eight months from this. |
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In the middle of August, Herb and his son Brian
went fishing for three nice days at Lillooet Lake, just east of Pemberton. B.C. This was the first time fishing for
Brian, and he said that he would like to do it again, even though they didn't catch anything. It was all about him and
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A week later, Herb took Daphne's son David to Victoria
on the ferries, and while there, they ran into Rodney, Edith and family. Herb knew that Rodney and Edith were on Vancouver
Island, but it was just a lucky chance that we would bump into them there. |
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During the same week, Daphne went hunting in the
far north of B.C. at Fort St. James. |
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In September while Rodney was out of the hospital
from his bicycle injury, he had to wear a metal frame (called a Halo) actually screwed into the front and back of his head
. The purpose of the Halo was to keep his head perfectly still, so that he would not pinch a nerve in the back of his
neck and paralyze himself for life. Around this time he was able to walk and drive his car. |
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This one day in the middle of September, Rodney
was getting into his car, and accidentally caught the Halo at the top of the door frame. He didn't bend down far enough.
Anyhow, it was serious enough to put him back in the hospital for a while, after they reset the screws from the Halo,
into his skull. He said that he never ever felt such severe pain before. |
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Rose and her childhood friend Ellen drove in Ellen's
car to Keremos, B.C. to get fresh organic tomatoes, without any chemicals used to grow them. They managed to turn this
into a 4 day vacation. |
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Daphne stayed away a bit longer than her mother.
She went hunting on August 31 near Fort St. James, and came back September 28th, with a moose, 2 black bear and lots
of trout. |
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Rodney finally got his Halo removed from his head
on October 16th, which was installed shortly after his bicycle accident on June 16th. |
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A week after that Herb got bold enough to go fishing
with Daphne. Usually he didn"t catch very many fish, and if he did catch any they were around 2 lbs. However,
this time he struck gold, and came back with three fish weighing 25 lbs each. |
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Kevin & Mariann lived in the same place in Vancouver
for years, but on October 29th, they packed up and moved to Gibson's, B.C. on the beautiful Sunshine Coast. Mariann
who was in charge of a photo department of London Drugs in Vancouver, was offered a transfer to the new store in Gibsons,
and quickly accepted it. |
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To get to Gibsons, it is a 3/4 hour ride on a ferry
(one way). Living in Gibsons worked out perfectly for Mariann, but for Kevin, who wanted to keep on working in North
Vancouver, it meant riding the ferry daily to go to work. He loves his job, and is willing to put up with this inconvenience. |
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Three weeks after Kevin and Mariann moved out of
the house in Vancouver, a fire gutted the house. They felt very fortunate to have moved out before then. |
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On December 6th Herb and Rose took Brian in to the
family doctor, and he had a blood and urine test. Several hours later the doctor phoned them at home and told them to
take Brian in immediately to the hospital. Brian's blood was found to be abnormal and he had no immune system left.
The following day he was diagnosed with Acute Myelogenus Leukemia. There is more info about Brian further below
-- also check with the link (More Information) for a fuller account of what Brian had to go through. |
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Herb's sister Dolores, moved to Meza, Arizona
for 5 or 6 months, and planned to come back to Saskatoon in April. |
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Herb and Rose's family, including the grandchildren
spent Christmas at their daughter Sandy and Shane's place. It was a wonderful Christmas celebration, except that Brian
wasn't there. |
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Events in January started on New Years Day, with
Brian coming home from the hospital, after his first dose of three Chemotherapy treatments. When he was first diagnosed
with Leukemia, he had some doubts that this would ever happen. The rest of the month consisted of taking Brian daily
into the Day Care part of the hospital. |
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Rodney went back to work on February 18th, after
being off for eight months from the bicycle accident that he had on June 17, 2001. |
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In the last week of this month, Rose finally took
her car into the repair shop, as it was leaking oil badly, needed shocks, and needed a few other things to be repaired. She
didn't drive it for about three months or so. |
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In the month of March, something very strange happened
to our daughter Sandy and her husband Shane. |
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Their children were all born in their "first" house.
About three years ago, they bought a new house, and then rented out the first house. The last tennant that they
rented it out to at the time was a woman with two children. Things seemed to be going OK until March 15th, when police raided
it for a Marujauna grow operation. |
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No one could believe what they heard. Sandy
and Shane had no suspicions at all that there was a grow-op in their first house. Fortunately, the operation was started
only about three months prior, and the plants had not yet matured. Also there was very little damage to the house, and
very little plant odour. |
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After the tennants were evicted, Sandy and Shane
repaired and repainted the house. They immediately put the house up for sale, and sold it as fast as they could. |
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Brian started his last Cheemotherapy treatment for
Leukemia on March 19th, and had his bone marrow transplant from Kevin, a week later on March 26th. |
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On April 2nd, Herb's sister Dolores left Meza, Arizona,
where she was hibernating for the winter, and returned to Saskatoon on April 7th. |
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Also on April 7th, Herb and Rose's daughter Cheryl
and Laurence's son Ashton, who was born on October 16, 2000 -- slipped and fell on the concrete portion of their backyard.
Ashton struck the side of his head on the conrete, and had a serious concussion. A short while after the
fall, Cheryl and Laurence realized that it could be serious, and they rushed him into the hospital. |
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There was a fluid "blood" build up on one part of
Ashton's brain, and the doctors had to cut his skull open to remove it. He seems to have recovered almost completely,
but with something like this, time will tell. He had a bit of a problem with his balance, but that seems to have corrected
itself. See closeup photo of Ashton - below. |
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Up to now Brian was in the hospital full time, getting
his last Big Cheemo and Bone Marrow transplant, but they finally let him go home on April 18th. He still had
to report in to Day Care twice a week. |
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Since Brian has been out from the hospital, he has been going
for walks to strengthen his legs, which are not yet quite back to normal.
On May 7th, he went for a walk down the back lane at about 11 PM in the dark, when he passed 2 young
punks who were apparently up to no good. After he passed them he heard the swish of a "switch blade knife" opening up. Brian
immediately turned around to face them, and said to them loudly, "you wouldn't want to do that, because I'll take it away
and shove it down your lungs, and I can do it", and Brian could do what he said.
Even though Brian has Leukemia -- he is big, powerful and intimidating, with a very threatening voice
when he is angry. He knows how to fight and he will fight dirty if he has too. After hearing him, the punks backed
off and Brian continued to go home.
In the first
week of May, Rodney and Edith decided to go camping the modern way. They bought themselves a brand new 27 foot Hornet
camper. It is spacious and with all the comforts of home. It should go well behind their brand new
truck.
Also, around the first week of May, Laurence and
Cheryl noticed that there were dark brownish spots at the tips of Ashton's four top front teeth, and they weaned him
off the bottle. He is only one and a half years old with baby teeth. They took him into dentist A, who wanted
all monies up front and Ashton would require many visits to the dentist. Dentist A said that it was not "baby bottle
teeth", but could be caused by heridity, shock, etc. |
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Laurence and Cheryl suspected this dentist was wanting
to make a bundle of money on them, so they made an appointment with dentist B, who specialized with children. He immediately
diagnosed "baby bottle teeth", and went to work. |
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First he removed all the crap with the excavation tools. Then
applied acid to thoroughly clean the exposed inner tooth, no root damage. Next he dried the area with an air dryer,
and applied the bonding material, then the blue light that hardened the new tooth material to the existing tooth. Ashton made
sounds of being ticked off about being pinned by Cheryl, the assistant, the dentist, and Laurence. But he made no sounds
of pain. They were in and out, in about 30 minutes. $82 bucks, and they were off. All that they had to pay was their portion,
and the dentist would collect the rest from the insurance company.
The dentist asked them to make another appointment when Ashton was three years old, and to let them know
if the material he placed on Ashton's teeth came off. He also gave them some tips on how to brush his teeth, and discouraged
any use of fluoride compound on a child too young to know the difference between swallowing and not swallowing. He even discouraged
the use of a fluoride tooth paste before Ashton could learn that he is to spit out what's in his mouth, and rinse. He said
water is sufficient for now to remove the sugary acids from around Ashton's little teeth.
2002 was a busy year. All kinds of things were happening, for instance on May 6th, Daphne's boyfriend Mike, was driving
in his truck to work in the morning, and was just about to turn into the driveway of his place of work -- when a young idiot
spead out of a driveway and totalled Mike's truck. Fortunately Mike did not get hurt seriously, just a few bruises.
On May 9th, both Cheryl and Laurence were diagnosed as being on borderline "diabetes". They did not have diabetes,
but the blood samples showed that they were very close to having it. They had to watch their diets and report back in
six or so months. It looks like they caught this just in time. They are both looking good.
On Sunday, May 19th, I planted my garden, and it turned out really good this year, especially the tomatoes, and also the
corn and beets. The corn did exceptionally well, and the tomatoes did even better.
How to Grow Tomatoes
Usually, I would lose my tomatoes to the "blight" disease. This disease would show up when the evening became
cool and damp, and soon after that, the tomatoes and the plants would show "brown" spots or blemishes. Soon after that,
they would go rotten.
This summer, I built a clear plastic sheet tent over the tomatoe plants. The plastic sheet was kept off the
tomatoe plants with a 1/2 inch cheap plastic hollow electrical wire pipe at both ends. See the photo
below with the sheet "off". It kept the coolness and evening dampness out, and the days warmth was kept in the tent.
The tomatoe plants, never stopped blooming, once they started -- even in the middle of October, they were still blooming,
and more tomatoes grew. None of them became rotten with blight.
I planted six plants, and they kept us supplied with beautful, tasty tomatoes until late October. Next year, I will
plant at least twelve plants, and then we will have plenty to can for the winter.
Hints -- notice in the photo with the plastic sheet "on" -- the plastic sheet at the bottom is kept about a foot above
the ground to permit air circulation.. The high center pole also helps with the air circulation. I put several round
PIZZA cardboards on top of the center pole, to keep the plastic sheet from tearing. In the photo with the sheet "off"
-- the sheet is removed in the afternoon to dry out the dampness that accumulates under the sheet.
To much inside dampness can cause the plants to go brown and rot -- so take it off once in a while and don't forget even once,
to put the sheet back on and in place, before the coolness of the evening sets in.
Finally, a person normally "prunes" or cuts unwanted and unneeded branches at least once or twice a season -- but this
season with the plastic sheet covering the tomatoe plants, the plants just kept growing and growing, and I had to prune the
unneeded branches six times. Be careful what you prune -- do not prune the branches where the "fuzzy" blossoms are appearing.
Don't forget to water the tomatoe plants regularily, and don't get any water on the branches or leaves.
If you don't clamp the plastic sheet onto the frame - the wind will surely blow it off.
Failure to follow any of the hints could lead to the plants catching the blight disease. It is now almost the end
of October, and we are still getting tomatoes, and we will probably grow more in November.
Well, the tomatoe plants lasted ALMOST until November. We had some frost at nights, when the temperature went done
to -2 degress C, and nothing happened to the tomatoes. In the early morning hours of October 30th, the temperature went
down to -3, and the plants "wilted", but nothing happened to the tomatoes that were still on the plants.
I decided that it was time to take off the remaining tomatoes. They filled a paper shopping bag full, and
lasted until the end of November. We had to stew some, as we had more than we could eat.
See the Tomatoe Plant photos below.
On June 21st, Herb bought himself a 1993 GMC SLE 3/4 ton pickup truck. It turned out
to be a well cared for vehicle by it's former owner. He sold his Mercury Sable on July 25th, for the same price that
he bought it.
Brian's on the mend -- but caution is the key
As mentioned above, Brian got the "bone marrow transfusion" from Kevin on March 26th. From this day forward, Brian
was put on a 100 day special watch, which ended on July 4th. Immediately before, on and after July
4th -- Brian was given a series of many tests, to compare his condition to the time, just before the bone marrow transplant.
Some medical conditions could have been better or worse, or just the same. All of Brian's test results were the same
as before. He was in good shape. They could now start reducing his medication, and reducing the number of times
that he had to keep on coming in to the hospital.
Eventually, around the end of August, he was only on Cyclosporin, Septra, and Magnesium. Cyclosporin was stopped
on August 25th, Magnesium on August 31st, and then he was only on Septra, until December 2nd-- which was given
to prevent "pneumonia". Currently, the only problem that he has is a medium case of cough and runny eyes.
Shortly after he stopped using Cyclosporin on August 25th, he was told that he did not have to report in to the hospital
any more. Instead, he should go to his local doctor once a month, and go to the local Medical Lab every 2 weeks for
a blood sample test, which they would forward to the hospital.
He is looking real good. His hair has come back in for the second time, and it is somewhat "curly". Apparently,
it is common for ex-Leukemia patients to have some curly hair. It looks good on him.
Twice in the last several years Brian asked me to quit smoking if he did, and each time I said not unless you quit first.
Well, as I suspected -- he never did.
In the beginning of July, Rose and Brian were sitting and talking in the front room, after supper -- and they were discussing
his somewhat persistent cough, and whether he should stop smoking. They didn't seem to come to any conclusion, so I
remembered Brian's efforts to get me to quit smoking, so he could quit smoking also.
I then asked Brian if he would quit smoking, if I quit smoking. He hummed and he hawed like he sometimes does, but
finally he said that he would. I told him that he didn't have to quit smoking just now, but when it is best or most
suitable for him. Well, I quit smoking on July 17th, and three months later -- Brian was still coughing and smoking.
On August 2, 3, 4, and 5th - Rose held a garage sale with great hopes to make some big bucks, on what I called a pile of
junk. That comment of mine was a big mistake, because it was not junk, according to her. To prove it she made
a couple of hundred bucks.
On July 12th, I had a new Sears - Kenmore Water Heater installed. Well, there is nothing exceptional about that,
except that the old water tank, just kept on going, and going, just like the Duracell Battery commercial. It was
guarranteed for five years, but lasted for fifteen years. Usually, the product makes strange noises and stops just
before the guarranty expires. But not this Kenmore water heater.
After Rose and I got married, and eventually bought a house in Richmond, we naturally had to buy furniture, etc, to put
in it. Over 30 years ago, we bought our first and only deep freezer, a Kenmore Deep Freezer from Sears. I
think they were called Simpson-Sears then. Well, you guessed it -- the deep freezer is still chugging along,
like a well tuned Chevy. They sure made good household items in those days. In those days they had a "good quality"
manufacturing theme. But nowadays the system smells only of greed and profit at any cost. What a shame.
I went camping and fishing for three days in the Caribou, around 70 Mile House, 100 Mile House, and to Kamloops, on August
19 to 21. I didn't catch any fish, but I sure saw some lovely scenery, and had a great time, except for the fact that
the nights sure got cold up in that part of the province.
Rose had another garage sale on August 24th, and made a few bucks, but not as much as last time.
A couple of days later my computer decided to crash, and I bought a new Compaq on August 28. It's got Wizards for
almost everything.
Rose started to renovate the kitchen and bathroom on September 13th. She got the kitchen "nook" re-upholstered, the
wallpaper removed, the walls repainted, and is working on a new kitchen counter top. She washed and scrubbed every piece
of furniture ie, stove, fridge, and everything that was out on the counter. Everything looks like new. She got
some expert help from Sandy and Brian. Sandy being a painter expert -- did most of the painting.
On October 1st, we got our first light frost, and for two weeks after that we have been setting record warm temperatures.
For some time Brian has been putting out job resumes, and he was getting no replies, and he was getting disappointed.
Finally, he got a phone call from COSTCOs on Bridgeport in Richmond, to report to their tire shop on October 15th. He
was told that the job was only temporary and casual. Well, he's been working almost on a regular work schedule
-- mainly because he is an expert at this job, and they really want him.
We will have to watch that he does not overdo (work to hard) his new job, as it could cause a quick major setback, as has
happened to many Leukemia patients. He will have to see his doctor, and have him monitor his bodily progress.
Brian still is a post BMT (Bone Marrow Transplant) patient, and fatigue is one of the most common and
biggest concerns for him. They should not underestimate how much it may affect them. It may take months, even
years, before they feel they have the same level of energy they used to have. They must find a balance between activity
and rest. It is important to listen to your body and to rest when needed. But, even on those tired days, however,
try to do a little activity. Too much rest will make fatigue worse. Too little activity can cause muscles to weaken
and break down. Pacing yourself is the key. Needing a nap during the day is common..
Returning to work varies with each patient. For BMT patients, this is usually not before 6 - 12 months after the
transplant. As well, don't expect to work a full day. Much depends on the type of job. The physician can
discuss this in more detail with the BMT patient. Much can depend on what condition your blood is. Are your plateletts,
White and Red Blood Cells, etc., up to par.
During Brian's Leukemia treatments, he lost his hair twice. Each time was after one of the two Chemotherapy treatments.
We were told that frequently, when their hair came back the second time -- that some of the new hair could come out a bit
curly, as it did with Brian. Below is a photo of Brian, several months after coming out of the hospital for good.
In the photo with his friend Dean, Brian's hair is still short, but it is showing that he will have a full head of hair again.
Actually, he now has nice natural curly hair-- mainly at the back. I don't have a photo of his curly top yet, but when
I do, I will post it, and then that will be the last on Brian's case -- I am sure. However, he will be required to have
regular medical examinations, for a year or two, or longer.
Continuing Preventative Treatment
On August 25th, he was told that he did not have to report in to the hospital any more. Instead, he should go to
his local doctor once a month, and go to the local Medical Lab every 2 weeks for a blood
sample test, which they would forward to the hospital.
On December 2nd, Brian had his last (Septra) pill medication. He was not required to take any more medication.
On this same day he had to report to a doctor at the Vancouver General Hospital for a physical examination. They checked
his heart, breathing, and his eyes, and everything was OK.
Brian now has to report to this VGH doctor, once every three months (quarterly). Meanwhile, he will have to
go to the local lab for a blood test once every month. This could go on for several years.
Finally, all those immunization shots that he got when he went to school -- well, they got wiped out of his system, also.
As a result Brian should be going in to his regular home doctor soon, and get those immunization shots, all over again.
On Friday, December 6th, Brian got his first haircut, since he lost his hair to Leukemia. He's looking real good
now. One of these days soon, I will get a photo of him with his new full head of hair and put it in here with the other
photo of him and Dean.
It was not planned. It was just a coincidence, that Brian got his hair cut on December 6th -- which is exactly
one year, that he was diagnosed as having Leukemia on December 6, 2001.
Roofing is hazardous
Our daughter, Daphne has chosen a trade that is done almost exclusively by men, and that is installing shingles on rooftops.
It is a nice outside job, if it is not too hot, cold, or wet. Well, this one dreary, wet, and cool autumn day (November
13th), while Daphne was working on a roof, and while standing on the ladder, about twelve feet above the ground -- she suddenly
started to feel the ladder going down. The base of the ladder had slipped, and Daphne came down quite heavily.
She was lucky as she only got some scrapes and bruises. A male roofer had fallen off of a roof about a month earlier,
and broke a lot of bones, and will not be working for a whole year.
Brians Year End Report
A yearly progress report on Brians progress. It is now almost one year and one month since Brian was diagnosed
with the (fast growing) Myelogenus Leukemia. He was diagnosed with the Leukemia on December 6, 2001 -- treated at Vancouver
General Hospital, and was discharged on April 18, 2002.
After his discharge he had to go into the hospital several times each week, for blood tests and medication. These were
gradually reduced to once per week, and then he stopped going in completely. He then took his medication at home and had his
blood tested at a local lab.
Eventually, all the medication was stopped on December 2/02. He took his last cyclosporin pill on August 25/02, and the
very last pill (the Septra pill) stopped on December 2nd. This last pill was used to prevent pneumonia from setting
in.
He now has to go to the local lab for blood tests, once a month, and to the specialist in the Vancouver General Hospital
for a 3 month (quarterly) examination.
Because of his Leukemia, Brian had to give up his original job. He started a temporary job on October 15, 2002 and was
laid off on December 24/02, the day before Christmas.
He was well liked at his job, but company policy was that all temporary employees must be laid off at Christmas -- to avoid
paying them the holiday wages.
Fortunately, he is still collecting from a Canada Pension Plan Disability plan, which they will continue to give to him
until he has a permanent job.
He looks and feels as though he is in perfect health, and will probably get another job soon, if the other one doesn't
hire him back. He still has to watch his health for a number of years, as things can change for the worst very quickly.
Photo of Brian taken December 31, 2002 |
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Note his full head of hair. He had 1 haircut already. |

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Natural dampness accumulates inside the plastic dome. Remove plastic sheet in daytime to dry it. |
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One of four clamps holding down plastic sheet |
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Herb's tomatoe tent, with centre pole to hold sheet up for air. |

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Feeling better and getting his confidence back again |
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Brian getting excellent care |
Brain & friend Dean (August 2002) at Buntzen Lake |
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Notice how nicely Brian's hair is growing back |
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